Patrick James Nelis sent the following letter
(response sent from mail@cartalk.com).
We need basic manners
It is very difficult for anyone to learn anything worthwhile in an
environment devoid of basic manners, and devoid of an appreciation of
the ways in which civilized people exchange ideas. Those are two
basic skills that neither parents nor teachers seem willing or able to
provide to children. The upshot is to see children who shout at each
other and at adults. And worst of all, they do not know how to let
others express an idea, especially if that idea differs from their
own. I have watched teenage children continue to talk louder and
louder when it appears that their ideas are being questioned. And
polite behavior--the "thank you," "excuse me" and "please"--are
totally missing from the vocabulary of most children. I am not a
proponent of a return to the good old days when nuns maintained
discipline with the stiff ruler, but we do need some education in
civil behavior to match the civil rights emphasis of the past few
years.
It seems that children receive much of their education in manners
from television. There are too many poor examples among the TV
sitcoms and comedy shows. I would vote for mandatory courses in civil
conduct as a good start toward producing useful adults.
My second gripe is with the education establishment. There is way too
much emphasis on getting and spending large sums of money on
"education" and too little effort devoted to developing useful
curricula. The recent rush to spend large sums on personal
computers is a case in point. Many school districts are spending like
drunken sailors, wiring buildings for computers, etc., before they decide
how the personal computers will be used. It is very difficult to find
a coherent plan, either from the standpoint of the educational value,
or from the technical perspective.
The plans I have seen start out with glowing words about the use of
the Internet and distance-learning techniques. Rarely do they explain
what the student will gain from the Internet or through distance
learning. The interest seems to be in spending money on glitzy
programs that have no underlying purpose, but which sound good to the
parents.
The spending is particularly annoying when you consider that the
persons making the decisions often do not have good technical advice to
support the spending. There is an enormous difference in the wiring
and support structure needed for the movement of Internet pages as
opposed to the structure needed for the movement of full video
programs. Many of the plans are poorly designed to use the
Internet, and have no hope of handling large-scale video input. I
have heard of microwave towers being built with no hope of carrying
the proper signal. In one case, the school was wired at enormous
cost, but no one had considered providing the power outlets to support
the new machines. And no one had given any thought to the program
content or how that content was to be distributed.
Let me hasten to add that I have a lot of respect for the teacher
community. A great many good, dedicated people are working well every
day to educate children, and many are succeeding. My concern is with
administrations that don't seem to be able to design or articulate
programs that make sense.
We need a lot of work to improve the environment in which learning
takes place, and to define the content.
This is a great topic. Thank you for the chance to participate.
My wife and I love your show. Keep up the good work.
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